At the grocery store today, the man standing in line behind me asked where Zoe had her cleft lip repaired. It took me by surprise because I have long since stopped "explaining" her cleft to strangers as it appears to me to be practically unnoticeable these days.
Turns out he is a pediatrician who specializes in clefts and is part of a group of Doctors Without Borders who treat cleft children in third world countries. Although he did not recognize Dr. Noonan's name, as he typically sends his cleft babies to Monte Fiore Children's Hospital, he thought it was an excellent repair.
He said the nose is nearly impossible to make perfect, think how hard it is to simply draw a nose and then imagine the difficulty of creating one, and Zoe's nose, he thought, was as close to perfect as you can get. Her lip can be restructured more symmetrically later on and her scar can be lessened, both easy operations.
I could have spoken to him for hours. It was so nice to find a pediatrician who had such a familiarity with cleft babies. As I drove off I wish I had gotten his name! Such a missed opportunity. Although we are mostly happy with our current pediatrician, I know she gets her information about clefts from medical journals and not from actual experience.
Still, it was an interesting encounter and made me feel really good about the choice we made with Zoe's plastic surgeon.